Preparing Yourself to Cope Effectively

If you’ve just learned that your husband or wife is involved in illicit sexual activity, now’s the time to prepare yourself to cope effectively. It’s not necessarily fair, but you’re the one who will have to insist on recovery.

Undoubtedly, emotions are going to wash over you like a tsunami. It’s not uncommon to be angry, frightened, disbelieving, and even embarrassed. But before you go under, remember that God is for you. If you stay grounded in him, you won’t drown.

I know that as Christians we can toss in a bunch of God-talk and flash a big smile, but I’m earnest. If you’re going to cope well, you must settle this truth once and for all – God is for you.

I encourage you to meditate on these verses, and call me if I can be help.

• Romans 8:28
• Romans 8:31
• Jeremiah 29:11

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It’s Time for Greater Healing

If you’re reading this blog, there’s a good chance that you’re the wife of a man who struggles with sexuality. He may be into porn, affairs, or some other form of acting out. There’s also a good chance that you’ve already confronted him, and told him all the right things to do.

I’ve been specializing in marriages impacted by sexual sin since 1994, two years before the Internet made its public debut into our lives. Since that time, I’ve seen clients as young as seven and couples married for more than forty-seven years. Make no mistake, the Internet can invade anyone’s home, soul, and family.

If you or someone you love is living a double life, it’s time for greater healing. Let the healing begin first in you. From this vantage point you can look out and see what’s on the horizon, and will be better able to navigate a course that serves God, yourself, your spouse, and your children.

I hope you will contact me if you need help along the way, and please be sure to visit www.sexualintegrity.tv for a number of helpful resources.

1.888.891.4673 – Call Center and Fax (in the U.S.)
1.719.440.4893 – Office

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