If you’ve just learned that your husband or wife is involved in illicit sexual activity, now’s the time to prepare yourself to cope effectively. It’s not necessarily fair, but you’re the one who will have to insist on recovery.
Undoubtedly, emotions are going to wash over you like a tsunami. It’s not uncommon to be angry, frightened, disbelieving, and even embarrassed. But before you go under, remember that God is for you. If you stay grounded in him, you won’t drown.
I know that as Christians we can toss in a bunch of God-talk and flash a big smile, but I’m earnest. If you’re going to cope well, you must settle this truth once and for all – God is for you.
I encourage you to meditate on these verses, and call me if I can be help.
- Romans 8:28
- Romans 8:31
- Jeremiah 29:11
Leave a comment